How to Squirt – The Basic Blueprint

Learn How to Squirt

Obviously this article is intended to show women how to squirt. It shouldn’t be that hard for men. But it can also be very rewarding for men to learn how to give those orgasms to women.

What very few people know is that nearly any woman can learn how to squirt! An ejaculatory orgasm for women is not fiction but actually a scientifically proven fact! We just don’t get educated about this topic very well.
But thank god we can change that. I highly recommend men and women to learn this skill because done right female ejaculatory orgasms become whole-bodyish and feel like heaven on earth. I’m so jealous I wasn’t born as a woman.

No, actually I’m a man who had the tremendous luck of learning to give women those squirting orgasms and let me tell you … it has changed my relationships so much. That’s why I want to give you a …

Sincere Warning!

No, not just a legal disclaimer I really mean it. Having a man give a whole-body squirting orgasm to a woman will create a very deep emotional bond this has been confirmed to me over and over again. Using this on one-night stands will absolutely backfire on all parties involved, so please use this responsibly. This can be used to incredibly deepen the bond and the intimacy in a relationship but it can also break hearts. I suggest developing a real solid connection in a partnership before attempting to learn how to squirt.

What about solo-squirting you ladies ask? I don’t want to say it’s impossible but extremely hard at least. It is easier to start out squirt-training with a partner and then transition to squirting while masturbating. You soon will understand why, just keep reading.

Who can do it, who can not

It’ s a big myth that I always keep reading and hearing that “some women can squirt, some just can’t”. This is rubbish for the most part and the good news is that it probably is for you, too. I’ve heard of a couple of cases, mainly a extremely overwheight woman who really hated her body, who was impossible to train how to squirt. But she didn’t proactively sought out the information eather so this already puts you ahead of her (winks)

Most women who were self-declared non-squirters just didn’t know what you are about to learn. Okay enough of the teasing. Here comes …

The Simple Secret to Female Ejaculation

It’s all about the blood flow. The only thing that determines whether you can succed in making an orgasm ejaculatory or not is the level of unprohibited blood-flow in the whole body. Okay, there’s another catch to it and that is the ever-so-often talked about G-Spot. To me it’s merely incredible that there are still people arguing whether it exists or not. Believe me: it does. It’s just the myths and the unrealistic claims about it’s effect that make women go “Nah, that can’t be it!” who got their G-Point stimulated.
And we are back to the blood-flow again because if you understand how to make the blood flow thorugh your body, the G-Spot will gain more and more … “effect”.

You see, most people have tensions all over their body and as a trained massage-therapist you can believe me with that. finding a stress-free back is like finding 100$ in the street. It seems like a miracle if you do. Now, of course to really get the blood flowing and to accomplish and ejaculatory orgasms through the G-Spot a massage is in order.

That’s why I mentioned the immense benefit of having a partner for learning how to squirt. Also we need the blood flowing in the whole body, that’s why the massage has to get really intimate. Have your partner not only work your back, but also especially the areas that are important to sexual stimulation: the pubic bone, the inner thighs (you will find an incredible amount of tension there most of the times) and the buttocks. Check the area around the breasts too, sometimes there is also some tension to be found. Go all the way down the legs and up the neck.

If you find tense spots, massage them thoroughly, untill the tension is gone, theskin area turns red (red area means increased blood-flow! But not all humans go red through massage, it really depends on the individual) you have at least worked the spot for quite some minutes. Sometimes tensions are just to deep to be removed in one session. This can make the actual squirting “fail” but then again there’s a reason why most people need a number of sessions before accomplishing the squirting orgasms.

Oh, and use a natural massage oil because it will probably get in contact with vaginal fluids. Some of the most natural oils are olive and grapeseed oils. Use them if you have no problem being remembered of frying steaks. (laughs) But since I’m no doctor, check with yours first or ask the pharmacist when buying your oil.

The G-Spot

Okay, once you really got the blood flowing it’s time for some good G-Spot stimulation. Now where is that dreaded thing? Easy, it’s on top of the vaginal wall. If you were to put one hand on the female pubic area and with the other try to touch the palm of your hand from inside the vagina you have the area of that G-Spot. By stimulating this area (that means just touching it) there will build up a spongey knob and that’s the actual G-Spot.

This may sound complicated in text but it’s really no rocket science. Further stimulation of this spongey tissue will feel very good to the woman and if you did everything right and you got the right bloodflow going, the coming orgasm will wet bedsheets.

When stimulating the G-Spot you ought to be quite rough. There’s not much to fear, the vaginal area was build to resist very strong stimulation and going to weak on the process won’t bring any results. And next thing you know, you are back on the internet and searching for even more information on how to squirt when you were actually really close. Inside of there there’s no need to be very romantic. You need a strong stimulus to achieve a strong response. But make sure your fingernails are cut!

Credit Where Credit is Due

I did not learn all of these skills by myself. Everything I try to explain on here in text format is actually nicely visualized by my personal mentor, Stephane Hemon. He gave me the basic tools on which I build all of my knowledge in this area. This is to say thank you and spread the word.

Edit: Unfortunately he doesn’t teach squirting anymore. But I did write another free guide on female ejaculation. Click here to get it..

So that’s it. That’s the basic blueprint of how to squirt. For further tips on the process, the massage, common pitfalls, etc. check my other articles.
I wish you muuuuuch enjoyment

PS: I really did learn many new things since first writing this post and you can check my updated guide on how to make a girl squirt by simply clicking on the link.

23 Responses to How to Squirt – The Basic Blueprint

  1. estanie says:

    so, how can i try to do it myself? i tend to try and sometimes it feels like i have to pee and i try to let go but i naturally hold back! is there a way to make it release on its on?

  2. sarah says:

    estanie i find if you go to the toilet before your start even if you dont need to it will relax you more. and if your still struggling to let go try it in the bath or somewhere that it doesnt matter if you do pee a little 🙂

  3. Tino says:

    Estanie, that is a common problem indeed. And it is funny because as any man will be able to tell you: It’s not possible to pee and ejaculate at the same time. It’s just not possible, even if you want to.

    It might feel like you are about to pee when in fact you are about to squirt, because that is what you associated your whole life with that particular feeling. Now you need to teach yourself again to let go and not hold back in that moment.

    Sarah’s tip is very good for that by the way.

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  5. LENNY says:




  6. missy says:

    make a solution of sterile milk and inject it into ur urethrea. Hey guys its really pee. hate to burst ur bubble but this hoax has been going on for centurys. so if ur woman
    cant squirt, she is normal . This is just smoke and mirrors k. You dudes are so turned on by the notion, hence the popularity of this trick. Lets face it women are turned on by mens squirt, why not visa versa.

  7. Horny babe says:

    my boyfriend has a problem with cuming way to quickly
    N it always leaves me unsatisfied. And he has a problem licking me
    Because of the “strong” taste but he is still wanting to
    Make me cum so how can he do it just with he’s hands to
    Make me squirt cause I’m really wanting it please help!!!!

  8. Tino says:


    I’d appreciate a little less screaming and a little more patience, I don’t check in here every day (I deleted your reoccurring comments).

    As for your problem … dude if your are TRYING as HARD as you sound it’s no wonder you don’t achieve anything. I would be surprised if Donna came at all with that approach. Performance pressure is the biggest sexual roadblock I encountered so far (and it’s the most common reason for male impotence by the way).

    This might sound like fortune cookie advice but really the best you two can do is simply relax and take it slow. The whole point is a having great experience, right? Well, STRESSING about having great experiences never got anyone anywhere worthwhile.


    If you say so … (rolls eyes)

    @Horny babe

    Sorry, never had those problems so I can’t really help you with that. Though I’ve heard and read that:
    -Cuming to quickly often stems from masturbation to porn. Often times when men are younger they try to “get it off as fast as possible” before mum comes in and as they grow older the body learns to cum very quickly. Haven’t read anything about what to do about it, but logically to recondition the body it’s just a matter of practicing …taking…your…time.
    -The taste of a woman’s vagina very heavily depends on what she eats. And my girls always ate healthy and we didn’t have any problems with odor or taste so go figure

    But actually, I don’t know how to make a woman squirt with cunnilingus. You have to use the hands, read that part on G-Spot stimulation again. When I said don’t be too gentle I mean it and there’s no way you could get that kind of strength with your tongue, hence reach the G-Spot with it in the first place

  9. Horny babe says:

    ok thanks anyway

  10. Desperate girlfriend says:

    Hi, first I would like to thank you for making this easy acsess info 🙂 Everyone has the right to know about it and learn it. I haven’t squirted yet but I feel a big difference in my orgasm. I’m learning to let go. I’m 28 and it’s such a thrill to learn theese things about my own body and satisfaction 🙂 THANK U!
    I’m with a wonderfull man, I get turned on just by looking at him. And here comes the but. We don’t have sex that often. I know here really cares for me and he likes me just the way I am but i think i might have been to progressive sexwise. He don’t like it if we plan sex, it has to be spontane. I think i know the feeling from an earlier relationship. When he wanted me to much it could really turn me off, he saemed to desperate. But howdo i turn it around. How do I get him to really wanna give it to me…? I’m so f**king horny all the time. The fact that he holds back on me turn me even more on. I masturebate 3 times a day minimum. I tried holding back on him but then we just didn’thave sex for more than a week..

  11. heavier beans says:

    Ok so my boyfriend can make me squirt just the way you say to but how do I do it ? I can’t get the angle like he does would I use a toy or ? He is best lover and we have learned so much together and he really would like me to learn and would love me to do when we are having sex any advice ? I so want to please him. Thanks

  12. annieoracle says:

    hi 🙂 im a bisexual woman, and i often have female partners and was wondering is it possible for me to make them squirt and vice versa, i have never had an orgasm with a man as of yet unfortunately but i have had with a woman, so i guess its because women may turn me on a little more, but any way would i have a better chance of squirting with a man or a women??? hope to get a reply… thank you xxx

  13. LENNY says:

    sorry but did not mean to scream as i did not realize the caps were on until to late please acept appology
    no stres here as donna really trys hard to squirt on her own

    most times i am not even home

  14. Pleasantly Moody says:

    trust me, squirting is the ultimate orgasm!!! its a total, full-body orgasm that leaves the sheets – as well as my husband! – completely soaked.

    after that first earth-shaking gush, my body is soooo hyper-sensitive that the orgasms just roll on & on & on…its like my “cum button” is stuck in the ON position!

    don’t listen to those yahoo’s that say its a myth, that its not possible, that its piss….its the most earth-shattering orgasm a woman can have. it not only rocks my world, it makes it quake, shatter, then slowly rebuild with a golden glow 🙂

  15. Tino says:

    Sorry for the delayed response. I was on holidays the past weeks 🙂

    @Stina (“Desperate Girlfriend”)

    My pleasure!
    As for your boyfriend I of course can only guess. First of all, you are right that it would absolutely not be healthy for the relationship if he started to put out and have sex every time you wanted to. You’ve experienced that first hand, as have I.

    But, the “only rarely spontaneously” story also sounds like bullshit to me. It COULD BE that he is playing a nice aloof game on you since it obviously works keeping you attracted to him.

    Or maybe he subconsciously has issues with sex itself, since in todays society women aren’t meant to be horny and want sex.

    It could also be that you simply have some shortcomings in the how-to-please-a-man-department – although I doubt that since generally the most attractive stimulus for the male biology is an absolute horny female who craves him.

    But really, the best thing you can do is not ask a strange guy on the internet about this stuff and instead talk to HIM about your feelings. Now we get onto “integrous relationships 101″… when there is an issue in the relationship (and all relationships have stuff) it is the very responibility of both partners to communicate openly. That means you tell him exactly how you feel and he explains to you exactly how he feels about this. If you feel there’s anything left unspoken, you talk openly about that…

    So, maybe when the last time the conversation stopped as he told you “I don’t like to plan sex ahead” although you didn’t feel completely satisfied with the answer, you inquire about the reasons of that.

    I’ll leave it at that. Go figure out your own relationships 😉

    @ heavier beans

    Ahh so you want to progress to solo squirting. Well while toys can help you stimulate yourself in the right way, you might also experience a loss of intensity in your arousal and orgasms with them compared to your human partner. It’s just strange and unnatural having a piece of plastic between your legs.

    I suggest a technique called anchoring, research it on the internet. It’s a term from NLP and basically let’s you connect the squirting orgasms that your partner gives you to a specific action as a word or touch you can repeat while masturbating.

    Also have a look on that youtube video I posted on here, you’ll find a link on the top right of this page. It shows a woman explaining solo squirting techniques.


    From what I know openly bisexual girls even have an easier time learning to squirt since they tend to have much fewer sexual hangups. Consider yourself encouraged 😉

    And it’s save to say that your preference for women stems from the fact that 96% of today’s men are either insecure wimps or insecure jerks. If you were to find yourself a real man of integrity you’d feel much like Stina described. (Although still you’ll have the hots for women since you simply can’t connect with a man the same way you can with a girl)

    @LENNY – So … how’s it going with you and Donna?

    @Pleasantly Moody – Warms my heart to hear that. Now you now why I’m “jealous” of women’s orgasms 8)

  16. Laura Victor says:

    Missy is dead wrong. Female ejaculation is real and most women can learn to do it. Google Lisa S. Lawless. She wrote a great book and made a video that teaches people what it is, where it comes from and how to do it. I spent time looking at different blogs looking for info on female ejaculation and nothing really worked for me. I stumbled on Lisa’s site during my search and found a treasure trove of free info.
    Good luck everyone.

  17. Aimee says:

    Lats of interesting information of Female ejaculation here.I love this blog.

  18. Tino says:

    Oh well, the guy I introduced as my source actually removed his how to squirt DVD from his productline, what a shame. Mh I have yet to find a comparable instructional product on the topic.

    Speaking of which, Aimee your instruction website somehow triggered my internal bullshit detector. Please understand that I’ll remove the link.

  19. allie says:

    this article is so presumptuous!!! you can’t say that all women work the same way. so many of the things in this article are so the opposite of what I’ve experienced. I’ve ‘squirted’ a couple of times and it was totally random as far as I could work out. the first time I was a virgin and it happened with no penetration at all in freezing cold weather when ‘blood flow’ would have been awful! And it wasn’t so wonderfully awesome at all, it was interesting but the best orgasms by FAR are the ones centred around and deep into the vagina, not the ones that radiate mainly from the clitoral area or related to squirting.

  20. allie says:

    also all the stuff about how wonderful the g-spot is … is once again so presumptuous. I defintiely have something very damn sensitive in the area where the g-spot is meant to be located but omg focusing on it is awful!!!! it is waaaay to sensitive to be focused on directly! the general push and pull in that area is faaaaar sufficient!!!!!

  21. GazelleGirl says:

    Great short but sweet info – I have had many experiences of squirting and can assure you it’s 100% possible for most women. It was only approx 20 years ago here in the West that doctors said the female (clitoral) orgasm did not exist! It surely does. And in same way so do squirting orgasms – they’ve been written about for thousands of years In Eastern culture.

    There’s a whole load of free info on female ejaculation / how to squirt on this brand new site:

    Check it out – really useful and FREE!

  22. Jason Arthur says:

    Me and my girlfriend try this all the time. At least 3 times a day minumum. I have a video of a profesional porn star teaching a bunch of girls to do it, but when I do it, i get the noise your suposed to listen for and then she says she is gonna cum, then she stops. I have got her to a few times but not that much, But when she does cum, she cums alot. What should I tell her that would make her cum more?

  23. Tino says:

    Jason, in the end it’s about learning to let go and counter-intuitively if you try really hard it won’t help but hurt the situation

    Oh, I just saw GAZELLEGIRL posted a comment that didn’t come through. She said: “Jason – it sounds like your partner is perhaps still not fully ‘letting go’ and pushing out/bearing down with her PC muscles when she’s ready to squirt. You’re almost there though – make sure she’s totally cool with actually squirting, could be she’s still holding back at some level. And don’t be too goal orientated – just have fun with it and over time she will release those juices!”

    Thumbs up for that.

    And allie… interestingly enough that was the most presumptuous comment I’ve ever come across. From the way you write I’m further presumptuously assuming that you really don’t have a healthy sexuality (and are therefore not qualified to give advice on the topic) One thing I noticed with girls that learned to have better and better orgasms is that they become really sweet and relax into their femininity more and more =) There’s a motivation for you guys and girls.


    Sorry people I don’t look into here anymore very often as you might have noticed. I’m going to close the comments now. Good luck everyone with your future endeavors.

    I’ll leave the blog up for learning purposes anyway, just don’t expect support anymore. (waving goodbye)

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